A Mighty Heart

A portrait of Daniel Pearl prior to a memorial service in London, March 5, 2002. The Wall Street Journal reporter was abducted in Pakistan in 2002 as he chased leads after the September 11, 2001 attacks. Claiming the American was an Israeli spy, his captors made a videotape as they slit his throat and beheaded him.

The story of Daniel Pearl has given hope and courage around the world. In "A Mighty Heart" his wife, Marianne tells the heartfelt and traegic story of her husband's abduction and murder. It is a MUST read for everyone who is as confused as I am on the Muslim - Jewish - Freedom - Democracy conflict that is arising in the Middle East.

"A Mighty Heart" will also be constructed into a film produced by Brad Pitt, starring Angelina Jolie with the assistance and approval of Marianne Pearl.

星座分析：十二星座註定被甩的機率有多高？(參考太陽跟金星)

被甩機率10：
雙魚座／「軟性的方式，先下手為強」，這個當然是比較聰明的雙魚，雙魚座擅長以退以為進，還有一點就是她會先忍耐，所以為什麼被甩的機會不高，因為她會先委屈求全，在一段感情裡面，先改變自己先配合對方，到最後實在是不行的時候或者他覺得無望了，其實雙魚座個性也很強的，所以實在不行的時候，她就先離開。

被甩機率20：
處女座／「從一而終又死心塌地」，也沒有讓人有機會甩掉他，因為其實處女座的人，你也不容易打進他的心裡，不容易跟他交往，所以只要是吸住他就不會放，因為對方也是他千挑萬選出來的，所以他怎麼會放過，相對的在很多條件上應該是各方面都很MUCH，要不行的話處女座早就先走了，她跟你在一起就是想要嫁給你，所以他也會很委屈求全，可是他是不考慮離開的，是跟你硬碰硬，如果他改變不了你，那他就改變他自己，然後改變不了自己就改變你，他就是非要在你們兩個之間想出一個方法來。

魔羯座／除非處於弱勢，否則會用計讓對方離去，因為通常是他先不感興趣，先發制人，然後他也比對方冷卻的快一點，所以通常是他來思考，要怎麼樣離開這一段感情，而不是人家受不了的離開，通常別人沒有他那麼的容易涼下來，這是魔羯座的勝算的地方，但是相對的，人家也會覺得他比較無情一些，他會用計謀讓對方離去，所以在他的世界裡，也沒有甩和不甩，只有愈來愈像朋友這件事情而已。

被甩機率30：
水瓶座／水瓶是沒有甩不甩，只有漸行漸遠變朋友，所以水瓶座的人很聰明，他們只有兩種情況，一個就是被辜負被劈腿，因為水瓶座不太管對方，給對方很大的自由和空間，尤其是女生稍微給對方太大的空間，結果男生萬一偷吃的話，她都是最後一個知道，或知道的時候她就問自己能不能忍，所以基本上給這麼大自由的女生，是不容易被男生甩掉的，如果水瓶座的女生，看起來又很大氣，又很會持家又很賢慧，對男生來說把你留著我在外面玩也不錯，所以他們的分手方式都是慢慢的變朋友，而沒有那種很激烈的甩不甩。

被甩機率40：
天蠍座／硬要搶先對方一步提分手，就是不要輸，而天蠍座不想輸的原因，就是因為不想要弱掉，而且天蠍如果真的被甩了，他一定會死求活求把對方求回來，然後再甩，求回來就是為了要把他甩掉，所以天蠍座他的好勝心太強了，他如果覺得苗頭不對，一定會先提分手，而醜話都講在前面，而且都會講得很難聽，然後就是氣勢上一定要贏過你，雖然擺明了是他很可憐，但是氣勢上贏過你。

被甩機率50：
雙子座／不夠專心又不夠用心，等於逼人家甩他，其實雙子不太可能會被人家甩，就是照理說他的性格很迷人，他又很聰明，那如果會被甩的話，就是他不夠用心又不夠專心，可是把重心放在事業上，也可能是亂放，其實雙子座很重感情，但是他表現出來不是那麼一回事，尤其是年紀輕的雙子，看到什麼都很感興趣，有陌生人來搭訕，也給對方一點空間和機會，所以對他的另外一半來說，那真的是不太能夠忍受，他覺得你要有分寸，所以雙子如果會被甩，是對方太沒有安全感的關係。

被甩機率60：
巨蟹座／巨蟹是沒有安全感讓人壓力大，他要安全感的方式就很多種，有的可能是奪命連環CALL，有的人可能是金錢方面，所以很多巨蟹座會讓另外一半，說沒有結婚打算的，或沒有那麼想定下來的，或覺得太黏很可怕的，就想甩掉她，所以巨蟹常常就是為什麼我愛你這麼深，你反而要把我甩掉，這個被甩是來自於本身太沒有安全感了。

金牛座／「一成不變又固執，標準的大男人或大女人」，當然對於一些喜歡穩定的人來說，會覺得金牛座給他一種很安全很穩定的感覺，可是對於喜歡求變化或者是覺得談戀愛要有一點花樣有一點樂趣的人來說，如果遇到金星金牛就真的會很受不了了。

射手座／「太粗心大意導致一切生變」，被甩機率很高，譬如說對方已經在暗示你了，射手座還是以為，總是活在自己的世界裡，還有很多射手座的人很粗心大意，譬如說他認定了，跟對方之間的感情很堅固，那對方就算有一些蛛絲馬跡，他覺得怪怪的，但是他會覺得說是自己想太多，那反而很多事情等到他發現的時候，就是對方跟他說分手時，只剩下射手座很錯愕。

被甩機率70：
獅子座／「個性直又任性霸道」如果會被甩一定是因為脾氣緣故，有時候脾氣比較大，比較直說話也比較大聲，獅子座其實是一個有自信的時候會非常的光鮮，非常的能夠CONTROL，可是他如果稍微對這件事情，沒有什麼信心的時候，很多獅子座會開始消極起來，然後呈現放棄狀態，他就不太努力，然後還有一點就是個性很直，有的獅子座就是屬於那一種沒的商量的，自己想怎樣就怎樣，然後其實他心裡很想跟對方妥協，可是表面上他還是不會讓步，以致於人家會覺得很難溝通。

天秤座／「無聊的工作狂，個性又古怪」，天秤座的外表，會以為他很有情趣，但他其實很無聊，他其實很無趣，就是沒有想法到了一個極致，然後個性又很古怪。

牡羊座／要不然就是自己太一廂情願，要不然就是太常忽略對方，這兩種都是牡羊座會被甩的原因，他可能自己一廂情願，就是屬於那一種，他認為他在跟你談戀愛，他喜歡你他就追在你旁邊，然後最後發現說，你怎麼會有女朋友或你已經有男朋友了，他自己就很受傷覺得自己被甩了，所以他常常這樣一廂情願的產生誤會，那第二種狀況就是，他太常忽略對方了，自己的家人寵物什麼都比另一半來的重要，另外一半當然就會有不平衡的感覺，而決定離開他。

十二生肖與個性

一、鼠癖難改：老鼠都喜歡積存食物，有未雨綢繆的習慣，因此。屬鼠的人也通常都有儲蓄的美德，也喜歡收藏東西，很有危機意識，所以，表面上他們看起來雖然十分機智樂觀，私底下卻沒甚麼安全感，甚至有點悲觀，他們善於交際，對朋友十分慷慨熱心，但是，你一旦背叛了他們，就會吃不完兜著走，又很會碎碎唸的，而且，他們也不喜歡承認自己的錯誤。

二、頑固蠻牛：屬牛的人，極有耐性及毅力，個性沉默保守，十分固執，自尊心強不服輸，而且喜歡獨斷獨行。

三、至尊虎王：行動力強，野心勃勃，富侵略性，是非常有領袖魅力的，他們神秘特立獨行且自主性高。

四、善良嬌兔：屬兔的朋友天性善良，重視朋友，但處世圓滑，不太　喜歡捲入蜚短流長的糾紛，也不太愛發表高見，謹慎優雅，重視生活情趣，而且穿著有品味，談吐得宜。

五、至尊驕龍：好勝心強，精明幹練，領悟力也高，喜歡發號司令，喜歡支配別人，愛炫耀，個性捉摸不定。

六、多情錦蛇：聰明風趣，個性隨和，擅長言辭，衣著考究能隨遇而安，直覺力強且財運亨通，嫉妒心與佔有慾強，不喜歡操勞的工作。

七、練達神駒：聰慧有急智，個性堅強老練，但會固執己見，寧為玉碎不為瓦全，慷慨好客，自信心強，對家庭中實的工作狂。

八、乖巧羊兒：樸實儒雅，親切而有同情心，愛幻想不務實，喜歡被照顧，容易丟三落四。

九、精靈潑猴：機智幽默，生性多疑而狡猾，不喜歡沉悶呆板的工作，長於社交應對，非常機伶又討人喜歡，感情豐富，但是缺乏耐性。

十、熱情金雞：開朗熱情，幸好炫耀，足智多謀，喜歡被恭維，也常常自以為是，脾氣急躁重視效率。
十一、機警忠狗：小心謹慎，警戒心強，外表看起來有些冷漠，對親密的夥伴絕對忠實，有很強的使命感，是忠實可靠的朋友。

十二、豬性善良：忠誠善良，心軟且生性溫和，各型十分頑固，容易受騙，但也很聰明，絕不會上第二次當，社交手腕獨到，修養很好，也很會賺錢。

十四種主星─十四種人格原型

開創型主星開創型主星包括七殺、破軍、廉貞、貪狼這四顆星。

七殺星：勇氣十足優點：胸襟磊落，不畏挑戰，舉止大方，反應靈敏，行俠仗義，不拘小節。缺點：個性衝動，率性而為，冒險投機，不計後果，言語易起衝突，難以分辨善惡，歷經滄桑，孤獨難免。

破軍星：停不下來優點：身體力行，求新求變，吃苦耐勞，勇於任事，不畏橫暴，善惡分明，反應迅捷，坦白直率。缺點：我行我素，喜新厭舊，個性倔強，反抗心重，不易合作，欠缺彈性，遇事每多辯駁，翻臉六親不認。

廉貞星：心高氣傲優點：負責盡職，見識不凡，思想新穎，是非分明，敢做敢當，積極進取。缺點：心高氣傲，情緒多變，自視過高，一意孤行，鋒芒太露，逞強好勝，要求過嚴，心狂性暴。

貪狼星：多才多藝優點：多才多藝，靈敏機巧，善於交際，學習力強，足智多謀，野心十足，生活多采多姿，常得異性助力。缺點:：貪多騖得，不喜深入，任性倔強，缺少恆心，喜新厭舊，多學少精，貪歡享受，慾望強烈 。

領導型主星包括紫微、天府、武曲、天相這四顆星。

紫微星：君臨天下優點：求知慾盛，好勝心強，厚實穩重，不疾不徐，自愛自重，重視品質。缺點：剛愎自用，眼高手低，虛榮心重，佔有慾強，自負任性，發號施令。

天府星：舒適愜意優點：心地寬厚，不拘小節，天性樂觀，熱心助人，不爭名利，自由愜意。缺點：大而化之，隨遇而安，缺少衝勁，貪歡享受，欠缺魄力，耐性不足。

武曲星：堅毅果決優點：剛毅果決，自立自強，吃苦耐勞，勇於任事，不畏挫折，負責盡職。缺點：孤僻自憐，倔強固執，待人欠缺圓通，處事略嫌嚴苛，自我要求過高，權力慾望太大。

天相星：謹慎踏實優點：斯文有禮，應對得體，謹慎踏實，思慮週全，溝通力強，人際和諧。缺點：意志不堅，粉飾太平，眼高手低，多說少做，輕言允諾，虛榮心重。

支援型主星支援型主星包括太陽、巨門、天機這三顆星。

太陽星：熱情積極優點：熱情積極，坦率直接，心地寬宏，不計仇怨，精力十足，雄辯滔滔。缺點：操心操勞，心浮氣躁，過份熱心，容易招搖，逞強好勝，獨攬責任，喜歡據理力爭，一生難免辛勞。

巨門星：明快耿直優點：心思細密，耿直明快，專心一意，理解力強，中規中矩，直來直往。缺點：恃才傲物，多疑善辯，刀子嘴、豆腐心；難得助力，不易服人。

天機星：深思熟慮優點：分析研究，思慮周詳，反應敏捷，服務貢獻，待人親切，學有專長，善體人意，喜歡團體活動。缺點：神經過敏，理想太高，煩躁倔強，不易認錯，幻想太多，心神不寧，精神壓力太重，受困人情面子，猜疑妒忌，因小失大。

合作型主星合作型主星包括太陰、天梁、天同這三顆星。

太陰星：按部就班優點：按部就班，要求完美，個性謙虛，待人和氣，合群性強，勇於負責，喜歡學習研究，處世平穩妥善。缺點：多愁善感，逃避現實，缺少自信，優柔寡斷，顧影自憐，容易悲觀，情緒波折起伏，常受意見困擾。

天梁星：成熟穩重優點：慈悲為懷，成熟穩重，思想超然，客觀公正，具有俠義精神，能夠臨危授命，施恩不求報償，重視公益服務。缺點：老氣橫秋，太重面子，感情用事，喜受奉承，過度熱心，難得安閒，吃虧上當，操心煩神。

天同星：知足常樂優點：平易近人，知足常樂，心地寬宏，不記仇怨，樂於施捨，貴人運強，注重生活情趣，不會爭權奪利。缺點：畏首畏尾，感情用事，大而化之，耐性不足，缺乏幹勁，想多做少。

和老爸溝通完畢 !

剛剛跟老爸談過, 他也支持我的決定! (可以說是FINALLY!!) 真的該是時候出去見識一下, 好不容易醞釀好的勇氣, 請就讓我維持住吧!

說真的, 都已經28歲了, 不現在出去見識一下不同的世界, 若沒有勇氣這樣做的話...不用想老了以後會有勇氣走出去! 所以還是趁年輕多出去走走吧...

給自己三個月的時間遊蕩...說不定會有新發現　新機會　新貴人....

加油吧 !!

Long Awaited Decision...Finally Made!!

OK! I have lay rest my long awaited decision, and finally I will be able to plan my next move. Even though after I have finally had the long overdue meeting with my boss, I still feel very stressed out and depressed. I kept on thinking...This is it. This is it for me.

Why am I not happy? I should feel thrilled that I have finally make it official, and yet, I still have doubts. Perhaps I just need to get used to it. Afterall I have been in the same company for over 5 years.

我只需要REPEAT THE WORDS.....找勇氣　找勇氣　找勇氣.......

the need to be skinny~

前陣子西班牙拒絕過瘦模特兒登台一事，引發社會討論，國內新成立的自信基金會，也針對國內小女孩對美麗的想法，來做調查。調查指出被稱為「芭比世代」的11到17歲小女孩，有超過五成的人，會因為外表，產生自卑情緒而缺乏自信，更羨慕高瘦的竹竿型名模身材。
所以基金會也希望導入正確的美麗健康觀念，並提撥部分產品2%的收益，開設相關課程，幫助小女孩重建信心。 記者:趙國成

When will fuller figures be in style? Being thin is one thing...being as thin as paper is not healthy! I do hope that Salma Hayek figure types will be praised in the near future.

Eventful Saturday

Just came home from n long & eventful Saturday....

In the morning, I took mom to see a fortune teller in Vancouver. The result was everything that we've already heard of or known for quite sometime. Therefore, it wasn't as a big of a surprise as I thought it would be. There are definitely issues to resolved and matters to be settled!! (sorry~ that is all I am willing to share at this moment, maybe will write more at a later time)

After that, mom needed to have her blood drawn, so we went to the Oakridge Lab. While we were waiting....a mother (from China) came in with her 2 children....they stormed in, and immediately went to the counter, even though there's a sign - "PLEASE TAKE A NUMNBER"

Mom: "Hello! I am here to see the doctor!"

Nurse: "Please take a number and take a seat, we will call your number soon."

Mom: "What? Please...I am just here to see the doctor"

Nurse: "I understand. But the sign says please take a number first, and we will call the numbers and you can then see the doctor"

The mother was forced to sit down and wait for her turn....she then turned to her children and said in Chinese...

"看吧! 這個國家就是這樣, 動作慢慢的, 又不懂人情. 萬一我的病情嚴重一點呢, 我還要拿牌等號碼嗎? 甚麼制度阿! 還真荒繆!"

OK! 1st of all, there is a sign saying "Please take a number", 2nd - You arrived later than everyone that are already in the waiting room...so WAIT for your turn!!. 3rd - It's called rules, laws, courtesy, and common knowledge on international politeness/good manners.

Wait...what am I talking about? I forgot that we are dealing with someone that are new to these concepts....**sigh**

After that whole unpleasant incident, I went for a haircut, which turned into a perm + highlights. The whole process lasted for 3 hours, and I was literally falling asleep in the chair. All in all, I love my new hairstyle.

It was a good ending to my much eventful morning~

get some perspective, people!!

I came across a topic with a friend in regards to posting comments on other people's comments (strangers, not friends, mind I add) . My friend had posted a comment on one of A's blog expressing her thoughts on a topic. A's friend saw my friend's comment and decided that she didn't like what was written, so she posted her own comments focusing primarily on critizing my friend.

I am sorry, but this has just crossed my boundary. Seriously, why would someone post a rude comment on a comment that has NOTHING to do with them. Are we trying to be funny? Are we thinking that "yes! maybe we will begin knowing each other this way!"

Common Courtesy People!! I have been meeting ill-mannered people lately, and I can't take it anymore!

From adding friend thru friend w/o permission to posting rude comment on other people's comment!

Why do people do this? Are you guys just too bored?

Gosh! Get a LIFE!!

大抉擇

最近一直在思考即將面對的大抉擇...反反覆覆想了很久...我還是決定明年是時候搬去香港！

總覺得自己是否應該要開始對自己的人生負責了, 也是時候 grow up...看看身邊的朋友們都一一的結婚生子, 自己卻還是堅持要繼續的玩下去, 堅持要 live to my fullest. 我想這種不負責任的生活是否應該結束了.

對於人生　我走到了十字路口　卻堅持的站在那裡不動　日子一天一天的被浪費掉　我卻還是無法下決心　看到Ｎ一直在那裡努力賺錢　努力的為我們製造未來　我卻自私的想要過我要過的生活　繼續的單身玩下去　想到這些　我就會陷入罪惡感裡頭無法自拔　

所以　我決定了！　明年就搬去吧！　試試看　反正不適合就再回來　沒有甚麼大不了的　全都只是自己再嚇自己啦！

6 Rules On What Not To Wear In Europe

Found this article on the internet today...

Just think how we view the hoards of tourists that descend on North American destinations like New York City and Niagara Falls. You know the type — they travel in groups of no less than twenty, snap pictures of every rock, tree and building they pass, oblivious to the obstruction their group creates on the busy sidewalk. They talk too loudly, carry large bags that inevitably get in everyone’s way and generally make a nuisance of themselves. The last thing you as a local would think of doing is invite them for a drink.

Blending In is Key

• Don't wear shorts

You'll stick out like a redhead in Tokyo and at it won't be pretty. European city-dwellers just never wear shorts. Instead, opt for trendy capris if you're a guy, or an elegant, knee-length skirt of you're a girl.

• Running Shoes are Verboten

Except for the über-chic bowling-shoes-come-sneakers or the odd lime green pair of Pumas, Europeans save their runners for the gym. Shoes with a low heel or cute ballet flats work well for girls. You'll notice all the women have fabulous shoes — even 80 year-olds suffer on in impeccable stilettos — but in the interest of being able to walk all day comfortably, settle for something less towering. Guys too should opt for sleek, black leather numbers, or one of the afore-mentioned fashion sneakers.

• Birkenstocks, Tevas' and flip-flops are a Major No-No

Enough said. See above.

• Leave the Ball Caps at Home

No one wears baseball hats here, so donning your sweat-stained Yankee's cap is a sure-fire way to look like a tourist. Wear lots of sunscreen and suck it up.

• Lay Off the Sweatshirts

I think anything remotely sweat-like is outlawed in Paris. Ditto for Lulu Lemon stretch pants. Opt for light sweaters, cotton blazers or jackets and shawls. Jeans are okay but dark and fray-free are preferable.

• No Logos

You'll see plenty of designer duds on everyone from the bellhop to the businessman, but next to no monikers or logos. So forget about feeling cool in your French Connection (FCUK) monikered cardigan. The French won't feel the connection and the English may run you out of the city.

keep them in good condition
Visiting a European city is a great excuse to look your best no matter what you're doing. Take care of your clothes, iron out the wrinkles, and opt for quality fabrics with fitted cuts. Take a little pride in your appearance and prepare not to be noticed.

Casual Style 2007

Richard Chai

Peter Som

Adam Plus Eve

Adam Plus Eve

New York Fashion Week Wrap Up - 2007 Spring

Vera Wang

Ralph Rucci

Ralph Lauren

Ralph Lauren

Doo.Ri

Donna Karen

Jay McCarroll

Oakridge Fashion Show tonight~

Oakridge Centre Fashion Show tonight...

More Whistler 2006 Pictures~

Sharon's Andy is back...

Sharon's Andy came back from Taiwan this morning....he came to pick her up for their 1st date in 4 months. She was so excited that she ran to greet him in the stairwell....

好幸福喔! 我也要!

不僅想到身邊有男友時的甜蜜.....超羨幕的!!

讓我超想N的....還要等到1月中才會在見面....唉....還真命苦呢!

Lawless Country~

N and I were talking this morning about stress, and how it has affected our relationship...and most of all...our minds. For the past month, he's been slapped with China custom problems, and have been under tons of stress.

We all know how the Chinese can be when it comes to laying down their so-called "LAWS" and their methods of enforcing them is beyond everyone's disbelief. The police/custom agent can overlook on a daily basis on prostitution/fighting/importing/exporting and etc. BUT...when you decide not to "pay" tribute to their "over-looking fees" - YOU ARE IN TROUBLE!!

That's how N got into trouble with them last month. N was importing some machinery for his factory in China, and of coz he had to undergo plenty of documentation before it is released....and this is where the problem surfaced....

With that being said....Even though China is booming right now, and tons of people dying to get a piece of the big pie....BUT BE AWARE!!! The dragon will bite, and it is usually when you least expected!

I wouldn't dare fall under that superfacial gov't regime anytime soon....You might lose all your hard working money & reputation sooner than you expected....

Home sweet home!!

Just arrived home from Whistler....
Only one word can describe my current condition...EXHAUSTED!!!
As the designated trip planner...I have exhausted all my energy and ideas on making this trip the most memorable one (compared to 2005). I thought this year's trip was a success!!

公司要去惠斯勒了！

Current Mood: Exhausted...

今晚就要去惠斯勒玩了....文化節結束後大家當然想要好好的休息一番. 身為公司的康樂股長當然要好好的安排一下 "吃喝玩樂"....

今天 -
整天正常上下班, 下班後大家去吃海南雞飯, 晚飯後上惠斯勒.

星期六 -
上午打Golf, 然後在Old Spaghetti Factory (18人) 吃中飯, 下午騎馬/纜車上山/下午茶, 晚飯在Milestone Restaurant集合, 晚上在旅館內開賭桌 /看DVD.

星期天 -
早上休息, 中午騎ATV, 下午打包回溫哥華....沿路找地方吃晚飯....

星期一 -
上班啦！

個人覺得行程安排上還蠻滿的....本來是希望可以去鄰近的Fairmont Whistler做一下全身按摩加上護膚ㄋ....想不到...超貴ㄉ....一個小時至少要$150. 想想後覺得算了...反正我已經安排了9/30在 W. 1st Ave "Aveda"按摩了.

好啦！應該是去見客人的時間了...哈哈...星期五, 所以上班偷寫一下BLOG.

熱心的客人

剛剛一位在台灣的客人打了電話來處理一些事情...順便也聊了起來他在台灣這一陣子的生活.

聽他的語氣, 我覺得他開朗了很多. 他提到了他最近在台灣上了一種叫做 "Life Coach" 的課程, 專門在motivate及做人生上的引導....

當然聊著聊著也聊到了我的將來....(我發覺這是我們客人最常問我的問題 ><")

熱心的他立即的開始為我做分析....

Ms. J： "你也....28歲了吧. 你對未來有甚麼想法"
我："....."
Ms. J："好, 跟著我的問題走喔." "幻想以後的生活, 解釋給我聽聽看."
我："我想當Soccer Mom." (當時頭腦不太清楚...隨便講講)
Ms. J："....." "請解釋一下"
我："就是那種生活很充實, 每天帶小孩去玩足球, 跟球場上媽媽們一起喝熱咖啡....那種白人家庭生活阿"
Ms. J："了解, 那你還和Ｎ在一起嗎?"
我："......" (心裡想 - 完了完了, 又要提到這個問題了)
Ms. J："那你們何時結婚阿, 都不小了ㄝ.....他有和你一樣想過這種充實的生活嗎?"
我："......" "有吧！"
Ms. J："你可以搬去香港看看阿....為何不說話?.....為難嗎?"
我："......"
Ms. J："算了啦！....你要有勇氣去尋找你要的未來....下一步要做甚麼你知道嗎?"
我："......找新的男朋友" (胡亂回答)
Ms. J："對阿...還蠻聰明的."
我："......"

礙於國際電話費太貴的原因...我們就只有聊到這裡.... 掛完電話的反應是...臉上三條線....><"

所以結論是...找個新男友讓我做Soccer Mom....

Virgo and Libra

難題用這種方法解決ㄅ....看看我和N的契合度...

When Virgo and Libra join together in a love match, it can be like puting two puzzle pieces together. Each locks into the other and sits comfortably in place. Both Signs seek security in partnership, and they share a love of beauty and culture. They can work together efficiently and smoothly because they desire similar rewards. The Virgo-Libra relationship may trickle along in the beginning, but it will rev up once both partners grow to respect one another.
Virgo and Libra both appreciate superficial pleasures, and they often enjoy collecting bone china, art or photographs. They also enjoy the theater and all forms of art. Practicality and pleasure are important to both Signs, and they compliment one another in many ways. Virgo appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can even things out when Virgo doesn't get their way. Libra appreciates the Virgo love of order and the tangible rewards that come with it. Additionally, Libra and Virgo are willing and able to see the different sides of an argument, and together they make decisions only after examining the facts.
The Planet Mercury rules Virgo and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. Virgo is an excellent communicator, analyst and thinker. These partners share a love of good, honest conversation and exquisite taste. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both partners share pleasing personalities and a strong desire for balance. Together, they bring culture and beauty to the world around them. Also due to Venus's influence, Libra can be lazy, and both partners may be seen as snobs: Virgo with their high expectations and Libra guilty of an intellectual superiority complex.

難題

昨晚跟一個朋友聊的蠻開心的...先說一下這次辦文化節還真收穫不少....結識了一些還蠻好玩的朋友們 (應該說還蠻瘋狂的朋友們)

我們聊到了一些感情問題...

突然發現溫哥華還真的有那麼多的多情男女....及無情男女. 想到一些在美國的朋友們, 他們對於感情也都還是蠻Clear Headed的. 為何溫哥華在這種溫和氣候、慢半拍的環境下大家都變的多愁善感起來了.

先不聊這位朋友的隱私...

他提到了我即將面臨的重大問題...."是否該搬去香港"
說真的...我還蠻矛盾的...是搬ㄋ 還是留在這裡...

他的反應是....

Mr. K ： "......感覺上你好像很愛他"
"這個男人這麼好喔"
".....好幸福喔"

我："還沒決定要不要回去啦"

是嗎? 很幸福嗎? 說真的我跟N在一起四年, 其中有三年是處於Long Distance的狀態...一年見面兩次, 365天內總共見面時間為30天. 我們根本就是以"眼不見為淨"的態度在過日子....兩個人用工作及社交活動把自己給忙的死去活來沒機會去想"我們的未來"

總算...可能是由於年紀也到了一個程度的關係吧....所以讓他給了我這個"年底前決定是否要放棄溫哥華搬來香港"的難題.

Mr. K："說真的, 你想要甚麼?"
"為了他要做這樣的犧牲喔"
"現在這個時代已經沒有那種嫁雞隨雞 嫁狗隨狗的心態了"

我："............"

是的...還真是不知道要如何回答這個問題.

分析一下情況ㄅ -

搬去香港

• 沒工作
• 沒朋友
• 沒親人

留在溫哥華

• 有工作
• 有朋友
• 有親人

算了ㄅ....總歸一句話..."沒勇氣"

I have not been inspired enough to take the leap....

Spring of 2007 Fashion Preview

Get some fashion sense on DOTS, DASHES, STRIPES, & PEONIES... (also the coolest fashion stage I have ever seen in my life)

Post-TCF blues

今天心情 - 有點失落

I have noticed that ever since TCF have ended, our office have been in a state of depression. All the negative feelings have all of a sudden exploded in us. Some of us have spent countless days working together, eating together, and even sleeping in the office together...we must now acknowledge that all these excessive times together have created friction among the group.

Most of us have put off our anger in order to fulfill the greater cause - TCF. Now, with the project in wraps, we have now begin to unleash the beast in us....

Though this event is good with making new friends, but when we seriously think about it, how many of these friendships will actually last until the next TCF. I have also began to realize that the youngsters have been treating this event, the event that organizers have worked our ass off for, an event of match making.

As for me personally, I have been in this state of depression for a week now....I wonder if it will ever go away....

With the excitment coming to an end, one serious question remains on my personal life....

My deadline of moving back to Hong Kong is near....(another question that I would rather never discuss again in my life)

Marie Antoinette - The Movie

2006 much anticipated movie...well, for me at least...it is much anticipated.