不要想不開喔！

As I am sitting in my office enjoying my coffee, out of no where...the extension line started ringing....and came my assistant's voice....Mrs. xxx is on line 1....

Mrs. xxx: Hey Jean! I am calling to tell you that I will be leaving for TW this month, and will not return for several months.

Me: Sure! So far, it's the holiday season, so there are not really much going on in the markets. We can evaluate after your return.

Mrs. xxx: Great, but...I have some questions for you. Hmm...I was wondering...when are you getting married? I mean...since you have adjusted to your client base and all....

Me: *speechless with a million thoughts crossing my mind* Uhh...Not sure...why?

Mrs. xxx: My question is that....Marriage is not really for everyone, you know? You have always been very helpful with us....well...despite the misunderstanding at the beginning.... Since 2006 is ending, and I just think that my husband and I should apologize for yelling at you before....

Me: Mrs. xxx, it is not necessary to apologize....I understand where you were coming from....

(Interrupted...by Mrs. xxx)

Mrs. xxx: Yes, with that being said...I still don't think that everyone is suitable for marriage, do you know what I mean? I think you are a good financial adviser....but....you are still young....

Me: Right, I am still young....and as for marriage....I guess it's up to everyone's judgement....

Mrs. xxx: Aiya....不要想不開喔！.....Ok, now...Have a great holiday...and see you in 2007....

Me: ^&%&##^$&^%*& (confused, annoyed...and totally speechless)

*Whispering*....Tell you a secret...I suspect...the Vancouver Asian Community is very very very very very small....and that there's a secret society meetings underground to discuss the topic of

WHY IS JEAN GETTING MARRIED ...wait, I should've said....

IS JEAN SUITABLE FOR MARRIAGE