How Asian is too Asian?

Let the bitching begin...

My cousin left me a message on my facebook telling me to quit being so Asian. How Asian is Asian? What are the actions that makes a person too Asian? Is it how a person ends their sentences? w/ the la, ba, wor...? Or perhaps the way a person dresses themselves? Or the way they speak? potentially with an accent? Or....the fact that they are drawn to Asian foods in non-Asian countries?

So, how Asian is too Asian?

I am extremely sensitive to this type of criticism due to my 2006 Christmas party, where...well, most of you know what happened there.

Overall, just total disrespect. It is a disrespect to the person they are criticizing, and it is a greater shame because they are, themselves, Asian.

Another thought, I am beginning to find it occuring more often in the US. We, the Asians, afterall, have to criticize whether we were raised in an Asian country or in an non-Asian country.

It's just within our nature.

I am no more Asian than you are.

The end.